Learn About Your Culture First
A Newsletter Written by Marcia Carteret
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The meaning of “culture” has been widely debated and it can be defined in many ways. For our purposes in the medical field the following definition is useful:
Culture can be seen as an integrated pattern of learned beliefs and behaviors that can be shared among groups and includes thoughts, styles of communicating, ways of interacting, views on roles and relationships, values, practices, and customs. (Robins et al., 1998b)… Culture should not be considered “exotic” or about “others.” We all are influenced by and belong to multiple cultures that include, but go beyond, race and ethnicity. (IOM) As humans, we develop our self-esteem and identity within a particular cultural context. Without a clear cultural identity, we would experience confusion and isolation. Our resistance to cultural difference is natural. It is important to recognize the resistance we feel, to see it as part of being human and avoid turning it into something negative. Resistance to cultural difference is a phase we pass through on the way to becoming more cross-culturally aware and skillful. To begin moving beyond resistance, we first have to ask some basic questions. Do we see our own culture as the “one” that is central to reality? Do we assume our way of operating in the world is better, thereby trivializing difference automatically? In the field of intercultural communications, the terms ethnocentric and ethnorelative are often used. Ethnocentric means that we view our own culture as being central to reality. Ethnorelative means we can indeed experience our own culture within the context of other cultures. Moving through resistance means moving towards a place of comfort in the ethnorelative stage. You might be thinking at this point, “OK, I understand the concepts here, but what can I DO to become more cross-culturally skillful. The answer may surprise you. The first step is learning more about your own culture – American culture. Are you thinking, “We Americans don’t really have a culture because we are a melting pot of other cultures.” If so, you are in good company; many of your fellow Americans feel the same way. But you do have a culture, and it is a very specific one. Your culture is something people around the world are keenly aware of, so it’s a good idea to learn how others see you. Further, as a healthcare provider to increasingly multi-cultural populations right here in Colorado, it is vital that you understand your culture as a baseline for comparing other cultures. Hopefully this feels like good news because an imbalance has been addressed. Instead of feeling charged with responsibility for learning about everyone else, you realize that you too are part of the culture game. You have something to learn about yourself first, and then, hopefully, learning about others will be more meaningful and more pleasurable. You’ll be able to replace the paralysis of political correctness with an intercultural playfulness. One day, you’ll even be able to laugh at yourself for behaving so darned American in a situation. It’s worth addressing what we mean by “American” before we start exploring specific cultural dimensions in other cultures, like time and its control, individualism and language use. Just what constitutes being an American? It’s a tricky question. There are Asian Americans, African Americans, Native Americans, etc. All of these “groups” are absolutely Americans. But for our purposes here, being very specific, we are addressing the styles of communicating, ways of interacting, values and beliefs that are rooted in what interculturalists often refer to as Americans of Western European descent. In other words, historically speaking, white middle class citizens of the US. Based on the definition we are using here, if you think of yourself as an “American,” ponder the following questions. Go beyond a quick “yes, no” response – feel your answers as they arise in you. This is very important.
Check out the newsletter titled Six Dimensions of American Culture to learn more about this topic. |